With so many colleges and universities welcoming new students to their campuses this month, it will be no surprise to see every now and then both friction and tension amongst students, staff and faculty. Put people of different races, genders, nationalities, backgrounds, opinions and preferences in the same environment−and conflict or misunderstanding will surely follow. Sometimes it\u2019s the other person\u2019s fault and sometimes it\u2019s our own fault. I know I\u2019ve had a few friction-filled moments in my life, and each time I assessed how I could have handled the situation better.<\/p>\n
With the start of a new college experience, a new academic year, or the next semester in your college experience, I find it timely to provide you with my “11 Simple Rules for Getting Along With Others in College.”<\/i><\/p>\n
I challenge you to read them and not find at least four or five areas that you can work on daily.<\/p>\n
11 Simple Rules for Getting Along with Others in College<\/b><\/font><\/p>\n 1.)<\/b> Think first of the other person.<\/p>\n 2.)<\/b> Accept the fact that people are different.<\/p>\n 3.)<\/b> Allow people to start off with a fair shake.<\/p>\n 4.)<\/b> Build up the other person\u2019s sense of importance.<\/p>\n 5.)<\/b> Respect the other person\u2019s personal rights, space, 6.)<\/b> Give sincere appreciation and support.<\/p>\n 7.)<\/b> Eliminate negative thoughts and stereotypes.<\/p>\n 8.)<\/b> Avoid sarcastic and spiteful behavior.<\/p>\n 9.)<\/b> Develop genuine interest in people.<\/p>\n 10.)<\/b> Strive to build healthy and rewarding relationships.<\/p>\n 11.)<\/b> Treat people the way you want to be treated!<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Ty Howard<\/b> is an internationally recognized authority on college student and staff development for peak performance and optimal success. He is the creator and lead facilitator of the trademarked Untie the Knots\u00ae Optimal Performance Process, and the author of the best-selling book Untie the Knots\u00ae That Tie Up Your Life: A Practical Guide to Freeing Yourself from Toxic Habits, Choices, People, and Relationships, as well as dozens of published articles on college student development and employee and organizational development worldwide.<\/p>\n For information on his programs and services, visit: http:\/\/www.dynamiccollegespeaker.com<\/u><\/font><\/a>. <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Click Here for MORE Ty Howard Quotations & Sayings<\/u><\/font><\/a> <\/p>\n \n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" 11 Simple Rules for Getting Alongs with Othersin College Copyright \u00a9 2010 by Ty Howard. All rights reserved. With so many colleges and universities welcoming new students to their campuses this month, it will be no surprise to see every now and then both friction and tension amongst students, staff and faculty. Put people of […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7831,7832,7837,7861,7874,1],"tags":[449,620,622,624,838,865,927,928,955,1125,1815,1818,1820,1826,4312,6610,6626,7057,7703],"class_list":["post-762","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-college-university-speaking","category-college-articles","category-empowerment","category-personal-development","category-success-tips-for-college-students","category-uncategorized","tag-avoiding-pitfalls-in-college","tag-building-healthy-relationships-in-college","tag-building-successful-relationships-in-college","tag-building-winning-relationships-in-college","tag-civility-in-college","tag-college-civility","tag-college-student-etiquette","tag-college-student-success","tag-conflict-resolution-in-college","tag-diversity-in-college","tag-getting-along-with-others-in-college","tag-getting-along-with-people-in-college","tag-getting-along-with-professors-in-college","tag-getting-involved-in-college","tag-multiculturalism-in-college","tag-succeeding-in-college","tag-success-tips-for-college-students","tag-tips-for-freshman-college-students","tag-working-with-difficult-people"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.untietheknots.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/762","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.untietheknots.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.untietheknots.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.untietheknots.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.untietheknots.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=762"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.untietheknots.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/762\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.untietheknots.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=762"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.untietheknots.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=762"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.untietheknots.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=762"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
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